"Elite New York City divorce attorney Jacqueline Newman is here to help, sharing her secrets from over two decades in the trenches. THE NEW RULES OF DIVORCE: 12 Secrets to Protecting Your Wealth, Health, and Happiness (Atria Books; Hardcover; January 7, 2020; $26.00; 978-1-9821-2793-0), is the first definitive guide for navigating modern divorce, full of advice to help readers: decide whether they are actually ready to get a divorce protect and secure their finances post-breakup find the right lawyer (or mediator) for their situation win the child custody schedule they want heal and stay sane through a disorienting time"--;Divorce, like marriage, is a new world with new rules -- You may not be ready to get divorced -- You need to put on your own oxygen mask first, self-care is key -- You are not divorcing the same person you married -- You do not need to see the inside of a courtroom to get divorced -- When choosing an attorney remember that dolphins are smarter than sharks -- Neither of you are as wealthy as you thought -- Your support awards may not actually support you -- Fifty-fifty custody is becoming the norm -- Your children may be better off after your divorce -- You may be in an abusive marriage and not even know it -- There are perks to divorce!.