The bending mechanical property of carbon nanotubes are numerically investigated in this paper. An advanced finite element analysis package, ABAQUS, is used to simulate the formation of rippling which is the appearance of wavelike distortion on the inner arc of the bent nanotubes, caused by the severe anisotropy of carbon nanotubes and a relatively large deformation. A non-linear bending moment-curvature relationship is obtained, which shows the tangential stiffness greatly decreases when rippling appears. This result can be used to explain the phenomenon and conclusion of the resonant experiment measuring the Young's modulus of carbon nanotubes, in which the Young's modulus calculated using linear theory is found to sharply decrease as the diameter increases [Science 283 (1999[Science 283 ( ) 1513]]. Here an analytical method is adopted to conduct a vibration analysis using a bi-linear bending constitution simplifying from the non-linear bending momentcurvature relationship, and the effective Young's modulus have been calculated for multi-walled carbon nanotubes of various sizes. The result carried out in the paper is similar to the measuring result is given by Poncharal et al. [Science 283 (1999) 1513].