Implicit relational knowing: Its role in development and psychoanalytic treatment
✍ Scribed by Karlen Lyons-Ruth; Nadia Bruschweiler-Stern; Alexandra M. Harrison; Alexander C. Morgan; Jeremy P. Nahum; Louis Sander; Daniel N. Stern; Edward Z. Tronick
- Publisher
- John Wiley and Sons
- Year
- 1998
- Tongue
- English
- Weight
- 63 KB
- Volume
- 19
- Category
- Article
- ISSN
- 0163-9641
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✦ Synopsis
It is increasingly apparent that "something more" than interpretation is needed to bring about change in psychoanalytic treatment. Drawing on clinical and developmental observations, we propose that interactional processes from birth onward give rise to a form of procedural knowledge regarding how to do things with intimate others, knowledge we call implicit relational knowing. This knowing is distinct from conscious verbalizable knowledge and from the dynamic unconscious. The implicit relational knowing of patient and therapist intersect to create an intersubjective field that includes reasonably accurate sensings of each person's ways of being with others, sensings we call the "real relationship." This intersubjective field becomes more complex and articulated with repeated patient-therapist encounters, giving rise to emergent new possibilities for more coherent and adaptive forms of interaction. During a transactional event that we term a "moment of meeting," a new dyadic possibility crystallizes when the two persons achieve the dual goals of complementary fitted actions and joint intersubjective recognition in a new form. We argue that such moments of meeting shift the relational anticipations of each partner and allow for new forms of agency and shared experience to be expressed and elaborated.