Cover......Page 1
How to Make Anyone Fall in Love With You......Page 4
Copyright......Page 5
Contents......Page 8
1 Anyone? Yes, Practically Anyone......Page 20
Science “Discovers” Sex......Page 21
How More Research Was Compiled......Page 23
How the Techniques Were Developed......Page 24
How I Tested the Techniques......Page 26
I. First Impressions......Page 28
II. Similar Character, Complementary Needs......Page 29
III. Equity......Page 30
IV. Ego......Page 31
V. Early-Date Gender-Menders......Page 32
VI. R for Sex......Page 33
“Does Somebody Have to Be Pea-Brained to Fall in Love with Me?”......Page 36
“Why Do We Fall in Love with One Person and Not Another?”......Page 37
“How Can These Little Things Start Love?”......Page 38
Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places......Page 42
5 Does Love at First Sight Exist?......Page 44
Part One -- First Impressions: You Never Get a Second Chance at Love at First Sight......Page 46
First Impressions Last Forever......Page 48
Be Ready for Love—Always!......Page 49
Stay Psychologically “Fit to Kill”......Page 51
7 How to Ignite Love at First Sight......Page 54
How Much Eye Contact Does It Take to Imitate Love?......Page 56
How to Get Sexy “Bedroom Eyes”......Page 58
How to Awaken Primal, Unsettling, Sexy Feelings in Your Quarry......Page 60
Naughty Eyes Are So Nice......Page 61
The Gentle Art of Pickup (Not for Men Only)......Page 64
Hunters, Make the First Move Fast......Page 65
Huntresses, Make the Fast Move First......Page 68
First Moves That Work for Women......Page 69
Let Your Body Do the Talking......Page 72
When You Are Quarry......Page 75
The Word That Can Save Your Relationship......Page 76
“But This Is So Basic!”......Page 79
Conversation Is Making Beautiful Music Together......Page 80
Conversation Is Like Selling......Page 81
How to Know What Topics Turn Your Quarry On......Page 84
How to Fool Your Quarry into Thinking You Two Are Already in Love......Page 87
Get Even Closer by Giving the Gift of Intimacy......Page 89
Make Your Lifestyle “Fit” Your Quarry’s Lovemap......Page 90
The Game Begins in Earnest......Page 94
“How Soon Should I Make My Move?”......Page 95
“Playing Hard to Get—Should I, or Shouldn’t I?”......Page 96
The Scientifically Proved Best First Date......Page 98
Give Your Quarry First-Date Butterflies......Page 99
First-Date Restaurant Smarts......Page 101
Hunters, Some Spit and Polish for Your P’s and Q’s......Page 103
Huntresses, Forgive His Foibles......Page 104
“I Haven’t Got a Thing to Wear”......Page 106
Part Two -- Similar Character, Complementary Needs: I Want a Lover Just Like Dear Old Me (Well, Almost)!......Page 110
12 “It’s You and Me, Baby, Alone Against This Mad, Mad World”......Page 112
Similarity and a Touch of Difference (Just a Touch)......Page 113
How to Instantly Make Your Quarry Feel, “Why, We’re Just Alike!”......Page 116
Words to Give Your Quarry “That Family Feeling”......Page 117
“We Even Speak the Same (Body) Language”......Page 120
The Three Crucial Conscious Similarities......Page 124
Let’s Talk About Our Relationship—Not!......Page 132
“I Got Just What You Need, Baby”......Page 136
Part Three -- Ego: How Do You Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways......Page 140
16 The World Revolves Around You, My Quarry......Page 142
Ego Massage Is a Highly Skilled Craft......Page 143
Let Your Body Do the Praising......Page 146
“I Can Identify with That!”......Page 148
Lovers Share Intimate Details......Page 150
Lovers Have Private Jokes......Page 152
“Oh Honey, You Did an Absolutely Superb Job Slicing These Mushrooms”......Page 156
“You’re Much Too Young to Remember This, But ”......Page 160
The Bull’s-Eye Booster: “I Just Love What You Like About Yourself ”......Page 161
“You Are the Most Fascinating Person I’ve Ever Met”......Page 164
“What Does Giving a Killer Compliment Do for Me?”......Page 165
“Wait a Minute. Does Everybody Like Compliments?”......Page 168
Knee-Jerk Praise: “What You Just Did Was Fabulous”......Page 169
Have the First Laugh......Page 170
Lovers Give Each Other Pet Names......Page 171
When Your Quarry Praises You......Page 172
“I Love the Way You Wrinkle Your Nose When You Laugh”......Page 174
Part Four -- Equity: The WIIFM Principle of Love (What’s in It for Me?)......Page 178
24 Everybody’s Got a Market Value, Baby......Page 180
Why Is Finding Love Like Horse Trading?......Page 181
What Currency “Buys” a Good Partner?......Page 182
You Really Don’t Want to Marry the Handsome Prince or the Beautiful Princess......Page 186
“Why Don’t I Want to Marry Up?”......Page 187
“What Happens if Inequity Strikes After We’re Married?”......Page 189
26 How Important Are Looks?......Page 192
What Type of Looks Do Women Like?......Page 193
What Type of Looks Do Men Like?......Page 194
“How Can I Make My Quarry Think I’m Better Looking?”......Page 195
How to Beef Up Your Odds on Making the Kill......Page 198
The Look of Money......Page 200
The Sound of Class......Page 201
What Does the U Crowd Talk About?......Page 203
Use Status Words with Status Prey......Page 204
Knowledge, Social Graces, and Inner Beauty Are Tangible Assets......Page 206
Let Your Quarry Do Favors for You......Page 208
Hey! What About “O Lyric Love, Half Angel and Half Bird”?......Page 210
Part Five -- Early-Date Gender-Menders: Is There Love After Eden?......Page 212
30 “I Hope He or She’s Not a Jerk Like All the Others”......Page 214
“I Want a Man I Can Talk to, a Woman Who Thinks Like a Man”......Page 215
31 What Is “Man Talk” and What Is “Woman Talk”? (Does It Exist?)......Page 218
32 “How Do You Feel About That?”......Page 222
33 “Excuse Me, Could You Tell Me Where ”......Page 226
34 “Please, Spare Me the Details”......Page 228
35 “Tell Me (Don’t Tell Me) About It”......Page 232
“A Straight Line!” He Declares; “A Gentle Curve?” She Asks......Page 236
37 “Could You Give Me a Hand with This?”......Page 240
38 Little Words to Win Your Quarry’s Heart......Page 244
39 Are There Dangerous Waters Ahead in the Gender Gap?......Page 246
Part Six -- R for Sex: How to Turn On the Sexual Electricity......Page 248
40 Your Quarry’s Hottest Erogenous Zone......Page 250
41 No Two Sexualities Are Alike, as No Two Snowflakes Are Alike......Page 252
Why Are Men’s and Women’s Fantasies So Different?......Page 254
Yet More Differences......Page 255
How to Use Differences to Make Your Quarry Fall in Love with You......Page 256
42 Forget the Golden Rule Between the Sheets......Page 258
Men in Lust, Women in Love......Page 259
The One-Hour Lesson That Will Change Your Life......Page 262
Another Crash Course in Steamy Sensuality for Men......Page 266
44 Huntresses, Have Sex with a Man as a Man Wants It......Page 272
Let’s Go to the Videotape......Page 273
Additional “Coarse” Materials for Your Raw Sex Curriculum......Page 276
45 A Quiz: Who Loves More, Men or Women?......Page 278
46 Your Quarry’s Sexual Desires Are as Individual as a Thumbprint......Page 282
Sex Is Like a Steak......Page 285
The Number One Sexual Wish......Page 286
“Why Did He or She Lose Interest?”......Page 287
“Is This Woman Enough for Me Sexually for the Rest of My Life?”......Page 288
47 Huntresses, Become a Sexual Sleuth......Page 292
Let Your Quarry Know You’re a Sexual Adventurer......Page 294
Make Your Quarry Feel Safe Sharing His Deepest Desires......Page 295
The Hot Purr Follow-Up......Page 298
Do All Men Have a Sexual Secret?......Page 299
Ask Knock-His-Socks-Off Details Questions......Page 300
Huntresses, Discover His Trigger Words......Page 302
Give Your Quarry Good Bed Rap......Page 305
48 Hunters, Do These Techniques Work with Women?......Page 308
Peel Back Her Layers and Lay Bare Her Deeper Fantasies......Page 309
Love Her as She Needs to Be Loved......Page 312
Magic Words to Make Her Love You......Page 313
Huntresses, Relationship Trigger Words Work for You, Too......Page 314
49 Finally, Snaring the Confirmed Bachelor......Page 316
Why Do Jerrys Want Such Far-Out Sex?......Page 318
A Walk on the Weird Side......Page 320
50 On Looking at Other Women......Page 322
51 The Final Stone Unturned......Page 326
Afterword......Page 330
Notes......Page 332
About the Author......Page 337
