Erotic Massage for Healing and Pleasure

✍ Scribed by Jesse, Caffyn

• Publisher: erospirit
• Year: 2015
• Tongue: English
• Leaves: 204
• Category: Library

✦ Synopsis

It is your birthright to live a life filled with erotic joy. This book will show you how to make it so, and how to teach others, through touch. You will learn about sexual healing, erotic energy cultivation, and sensual and erotic massage. Caffyn Jesse gives stroke-by-stroke instructions for pleasuring penises and vulvas. Chapters on orgasm coaching will vastly expand your orgasmic capacities. Her toolbox includes techniques ranging from scar tissue healing to spanking. Original illustrations show the specifics of pelvic, genital and anal anatomy. Powerful practices guide you in awakening the full potential of your sexuality. Erotic massage provides an ideal environment for healing and learning about sex. But without appropriate safeguards and clear boundaries, erotic massage can retraumatize already wounded people. Caffyn Jesse offers vital guidance on the ethics of practice.

✦ Table of Contents

PREFACE
INTRODUCTION
SEXUAL HEALING
The three-legged stool of sexual healing
Learning to Choose Pleasure
Empowering Choice and Voice
Sexual Healing through Bodywork
Healing our Relationship with Sexual Energy
ACCESSING FULL EMBODIMENT
Sound
Movement
Imagination
Love
Mindful Erotic Practice
Exercises for Accessing Full Embodiment
Exercise 1: Prana Pump with the Pelvic Diaphragm
Exercise 2: Wand of Light
Exercise 3: Catch Fire
Exercise 4: The Microcosmic Orbit
Exercise 5: Chakra Vibrations
Resources
SENSUAL MASSAGE
How to Touch
Sensual Massage is not Therapeutic Massage
Preparations
Basic Massage Strokes
Massage Ergonomics
Knowing When Not to Massage
Exercise 6: A Basic Massage Routine
Exercise 7: Breast Massage
Resources
TOUCHING WOMEN
Introduction
The Vulva: Anatomy
Exercise 8: Vulva Mapping
Resources
ORGASM COACHING FOR WOMEN
Clitoral Glans Orgasm
Full Clitoral Complex Orgasm(s)
Vaginal Orgasms
Sacred Spot Massage
Squirting Orgasms
Blended Orgasms
A-Spot Orgasms
Anal Orgasms
Valley Orgasms
Three Sacred Waters of Female Arousal
Expanded orgasms
Exercise 9: Expand Orgasms with Breath
Tips for the non-orgasmic
Conclusion
Resources
APPROACHES TO VULVA TOUCH
Mindful Erotic Practice Ritual
Exercise 10: Erotic Ritual for Women
Taoist Erotic Massage
Exercise 11: Taoist Erotic Massage for Women
Pelvic Opening Massage
Exercise 12: Pelvic Opening Massage
Healing Touch Meditation
Exercise 13: Healing Touch Meditation
Standing G-Spot Massage: A 10-Step Technique
Exercise 14: Standing G-Spot Massage
Resources
TOUCHING MEN
Introduction
Male Genital Anatomy
Arousal and Erection
Exercise 15: Mapping the Male Genitals
Conclusion
Resources
ORGASM COACHING FOR MEN
Basic Ejaculatory Orgasm
Expanded Orgasmic Sensation
Separating Orgasm and Ejaculation
Orgasmic Events
Soft Penis Orgasms
Anal Orgasms
Sound Orgasms
Three Sacred Waters of Male Arousal
Letting Go of the Agenda of Orgasm
Resources
APPROACHES TO TOUCHING PENISES
Exercise 16: Exploring Inner Aliveness
Create an Erotic Ritual
Exercise 17: Erotic Ritual for Men
Taoist Erotic Massage for Men
Exercise 18: Taoist Erotic Massage for Men
Resources
TOUCHING GENDER
Challenging Gender Assumptions
Gender Identity, Gender Expression, Biological Sex and Who We are Attracted To
Working with Gender-Variant People
Conclusion
Resources
ANAL MASSAGE
Encountering the “Electric Fence”
Before you start: Precautions about anal exploration
Anal Anatomy
Exercise 19: Anal Mapping
Conclusion
Resources
References
HEALING PAINFUL SEX
Exercise 20: Fascial Unwinding
Exercise 21: Scar Tissue Massage
Case Studies
Circumcision Scars
Peyronie’s Disease
Conclusion
Resources
References
SOFT RESTRAINT AND BOLD SENSATION
Negotiation
Safe Words and Check-ins
Precautions
Restraint
Rough Handling
Sensation Toys
Aftercare
Resources
References
COMMUNAL EROTIC EXPERIENCE
Resources
References
ECSTATIC EMBODIMENT
What is Sexual Energy?
Coming Home to the Body
Addressing Shame and Fear
Empowering Choices and Boundaries
Transforming Gender
Tantric Practices
Taoist Practices
What is Sacred Intimacy?
Resources
References
PROFESSIONAL ETHICS AND BOUNDARIES
Create a safe container
Understand the potential for harm
Refrain from Exploitation
Understand the paradigm of romance and relationship
Avoid shaming a client’s desires
Avoid dual relationships
Represent honestly the benefits and limitations of treatment
Right to Privacy
Maintain Continuing Competency
Don’t Mix Bodily Fluids!
Resources
References
APPENDIX: EROTIC MASSAGE STROKES
Breast Massage Strokes

✦ Subjects

Erotic Massage , Healing and Pleasure